Researchers Answer: When should I ask her out?

Women’s behavior towards men or sexual interest across the menstrual cycle have been studied previously. For first time, researchers in France have tried to find the change in women’s receptivity to an explicit courtship solicitation across different phases of the menstrual cycle.

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Several studies have shown that during the fertile phase of the menstrual cycle – women show greater preference for facial masculinity, taller men, men expressing dominant behavior, male voice pitch, olfactory cues about body symmetry etc. Researchers term this as the “rose-tinted-spectacle” effect. It is also found that during the fertile phase, women are more prone to fantasizing about having sexual intercourse with a man other than their current partner, their overall interest and thoughts about sex peaked, they dress more provocatively, their frequency of intercourse was very high at ovulation & declined abruptly thereafter and women initiated sexual activity peaked during ovulation. However no research was conducted to directly test the receptivity of women to courtship applications, across different stages of the menstrual cycle.

A group of researchers selected three nightclubs in France where lots of young females visited. The clubs played two sessions (10 to 15 mins) of slow & romantic songs to encourage flirting and encounters. The researchers recruited 3 young men who were selected by a test of physical attractiveness rated by 20 young women. The 3 men only knew that they were role-playing for a study, but not exactly the details of the study. They had to use standard phrases like “Hello, My name’s Antoine. Do you want to dance?” (research suggest this as the common formula at nightclubs) and when refused “Too bad. Maybe another time?” When the slow song sessions start, the 3 men get into the crowd and court women (who are alone, with no partners of either sex). Upon rejection, they move about 3 meters away for the next participant. Three meters was enough distance to have the women not get suspicious about the three men approaching all women, due to the loud noise in the club. Irrespective of acceptance or rejection of the courtship application, a female researcher approached the participant informing about the study and inviting for a survey, which asked several questions including relationship status and days since the first day of the current menstrual cycle.

AskOutOf the 161 women who qualified 32 were in their menstrual (1 to 5) days, 51 were in their fertile (6 to 14) days and 78 were in their luteal (15 to 28) days. With regards to rejection or acceptance, 58% of women in their fertile days accepted as compared to 34% in menstrual days and 39% in luteal days. Further statistical analysis clearly demonstrated that the phase of the menstrual cycle had significant impact on accepting or rejecting the courtship application. However there is no understanding of whether the phase of the menstrual cycle influenced going to the nightclub.

Men, watch for those days and strike it!

Journal Reference: doi:10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2009.03.004

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  • Jeff W.
    The graph is totally misleading. The odds of her saying "no" when asked to dance did not go to zero on her period. It was percentages for the whole range of days 34% (pre-ovulation) or 39% (post-ovulation). They did not give any data about whether they said "yes" or "no" on the one day of their period. So, the percent increase is only about 20% for the week closest to ovulation, and not that bad otherwise (about one in three). Conclusion: Ask girls to dance. If you have to ask more than once, you're likely to get one to say yes (assuming you are as good looking as the 3 male models they used in the sutdy).
  • Girlie
    "Reminds me of why I don’t trust women – what normal thing can bleed for five days but not die?"

    Any part of your body can bleed for 5 days if I cut you deep enough, reminds me why I don't trust men, they've always got their dick on their mind and their head up their ass.
  • lol
    So, all you have to do is figure out her menstural cycle by picking through her garbage for tampons, AND YOU'RE GOLD!
  • Skip
    It could be like passover with the red paint on the door per se
  • Mary
    Odd ... I'm always super ... um ... amorous right before my period. For about three days before ANY line would work on me. In fact, just say "ok". Or nod. Or just don't run. Or at least, not fast.
  • Roldi
    Well, there is the answer to all those guys who can not get a date.
  • John Davis
    Wow, I think you hit that nail square on the head!

    RT
  • Ben Hulme
    I fell in love with her. I then waited for two weeks until after I noticed she was being a total bitch, bought some stilts, grew a five oclock beard, screamed demands with a husky voice and HEY PRESTO! My balls were in her mouth!
  • john doe
    "excuse me, but are you currently ovulating?"
  • shark
    Men, watch for those days and strike it!

    sure, since all the girls have a display on their foreheads with their "phase".
    :D
  • Gonzobot
    So...your advice to stupid men everywhere is to figure out when they are most fertile, grunt loudly at this time, and then run like hell before the red tide rolls in? Isn't this going to make birthrates go up in the uneducated by about a thousand times? :/ Sheesh. Reminds me of why I don't trust women - what normal thing can bleed for five days but not die?
  • Joe Mama
    I knew those hos were planning a bloody vagina invasion with their snatches of pain.
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